I really need to talk to someone that will not judge me. I am so afraid to tell someone about what happened today. 

Views: 261

Replies to This Discussion

Be just and fear not.

OK, earlier today, I was raped by another man. 

Go to the nearest police station. Don't shower or change clothes. Go now.

That was done earlier today. 

Holy shit.  Call the cops.

JB

That was taken care of earlier today. 

Scott, before I go any further with what im about to say, I need a clarification to answer to this question....

You got raped by another man.... again?

Yes, once in 1985 when I was twenty seven, and yesterday. 

Holy crap. Well youve done everything you can actively do about it, but you should probably find a therapist who specializes in things like ptsd to help. Talking helps, but t kinda hard to put it all out in the open and risk some asshole acting like your friends did last time you talked about it....

Thank you. I am a different person than I was back in 1985. I am much stronger in my maleness, and I have a great support group of guys. Last time, I had no one. 

Still... go see a therapist. At least once, but make sure hes the kind that deals with vets, cops, etc. Other therapists (especially "rape counslers") tend to be a little to... I wanna say feel good, to really be able to help a man. A little to much talking about feelings to make a man comfortable.  

Most therapists that work with vets are a little rough around the edges, and can actually give some help in a way that doesnt make you wanna go split half a chord of maple wood with an Hammer and wedge to make you feel male again....

Roger that. I do have a pastor in my church, he is in charge of male ministry,. He feels that today's churches tend to wussifie Jesus, he was just teaching this week how Jesus was a mans man. So I will talk to him when he has a free time. 

RSS

Latest Activity

Rick Shelton commented on Josh Allen's photo
Thumbnail

The New Lexus RX SUV

"Josh, that's not a "Monster truck" it's an everyday driver LOL.  SUV stands for Sport Utility Vehicle and if you used the Lexus "SUV" for sport or utility then you'd wreck it, which is why you see it on the…"
8 minutes ago
Kit replied to Kneller's discussion Shoes for a night out
"Either cowboy boots or vans! Vans are the ultimate clubbing shoe, comfy and smart!"
10 minutes ago
Josh Allen commented on Josh Allen's photo
Thumbnail

The New Lexus RX SUV

"Range Rovers lack the class of the Lexus, they are blocky looking. Never liked them. The Base price on the Lexus is £44,000 Roger. I have one in gold but the black is nice too. "
15 minutes ago
J. D. replied to Marcus Baughurst's discussion Men baking, opinions?
"I wouldn't know about the connection between kneading bread by hand and stress relief as I make large batches and use a unique mixer designed primarily for kneading large-ish batches of dough.  :)  But the aroma of fresh-baked bread…"
26 minutes ago
Marcus Baughurst replied to Marcus Baughurst's discussion Men baking, opinions?
"Good to see so many of you enjoy it, it's a great stress release, especially kneeding bread.  Not trying to make a point, simply asking if anyone enjoys baking. Shame my post caused a few people to think  I was questioning their…"
29 minutes ago
Roger Mason commented on Josh Allen's photo
Thumbnail

The New Lexus RX SUV

"My wife has a Range Rover and it runs like a tank. What is the base price of the Lexus?"
31 minutes ago
Cthulhu's Revenge commented on Josh Allen's photo
Thumbnail

The New Lexus RX SUV

"i spew at the sight of a range rover. Putrid contraptions"
44 minutes ago
Steve Dallas replied to Marcus Baughurst's discussion Men baking, opinions?
"Haven't ventured into baking, mostly stick with just regular cooking. My wife loves baking so I leave that for her to relieve her stress."
46 minutes ago

© 2014   Created by Brett McKay.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service