Movember-start of week three. I say "start of" because I'm really hoping by some blessed miracle it will get darker this week! On the up side, strangely enough, my wife can't keep her hands off me! Behold the power of The Mo!
"In a sense, yes. If it is a friendship then yes, even for 'lunch'. But as Will says if she is inviting you to go to her apartment to get your opinion of certain lingerie then that's not a friendship (at least in her…"
"Opening a friendship is a problem, because that's not what you really want and she knows it.
Lord, I wish nobody had come up with that "just tell her how you feel" thing. It's so much pressure on the one hearing it.…"
"I think you handled that pretty well. Just watch your own emotions and put as little thought as possible into that "give it another go" thing. Actively keep yourself from daydreaming about her, for instance. Sure, when…"
"So you asked her on a "real" date before or after she told you she's not attracted to you? If she's not into you, don't date her, not even platonically. Even if you have to call her back or write her and say…"