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Comment by Richard Flannery on February 9, 2015 at 1:21pm

Lol your not alone J.D. I will never understand why 9 month olds need hard soled shoes. 

Comment by J. D. on February 9, 2015 at 12:44pm

My little 9-month girl has been crawling around for about a month, but now likes to spend much of her time climbing up onto and over anything that interests her, including and especially her Dad.  Following an unfortunate incident last week where she smashed her little elbow right into my crotch, I've had to take to wearing a cup at all times.  I'm not sure how many other Dads do or have had to do this, but regardless, I need to avoid the pain and make sure the equipmemnt works so this kid can have some sibblings.  It's just one of a great many aspects of becoming a Dad I never anticipated.

Comment by Steve G on January 27, 2015 at 8:19pm

Hello Andres, welcome to the hood (fatherhood) and congrats on the birth of your daughter.  I have 4, first was a girl, next 3 boys.  

John, I felt the same way for a while.  With 3 sons it was less about the male/female gap and more about where's my identity.  I've learned that being a husband then father altered my identity for the better and that's part of who I am now.  And only recently after hoping for a man cave or something to call my own, I settled for a corner of my bedroom where I have a leather chair, and a foot locker with my hobby items and journal residing.  When I get overwhelmed it's good to have a place to go and do what ever I want.  What I'm getting to is, find a corner and focus on something else, reading, coin collecting, journaling, listening to an iPod, or even napping.  Good luck!

Comment by J. D. on January 27, 2015 at 6:46pm

Welcome, Andres.  My little girl is 8 months old and is crawling all over the place and getting into everythibng.  I hope yours is letting you sleep at least a few nights a week.  Hope to see you around, both here and in the rest of the forums.

Comment by Andres Hill on January 27, 2015 at 1:46pm

Hello Everyone. I am a new member to the group, a proud father of a 2 month old baby girl.

Comment by John Herbert on November 4, 2014 at 4:50am

Have just joined the community from the UK. I am Dad to two young daughters, Ciara (5) and Maeve (3). It's just me and Murphy (black Labrador retriever, sadly no longer in possession of his crown jewels) keeping up the manly agenda. As a father of daughters, working as Deputy Principal of a large and very busy boarding school, my main concerns are in term time to make sure I see the girls at some point in the day while also keeping a small part of myself that is not consumed by work, Disney princesses or the demands (and wonders) of family life. Any tips, gentlemen?

Comment by Blake Sibley on March 2, 2014 at 3:26am

Just joined. Great group. I am the father of four. Daughters are 19, 14 and 7. Son is 17. A gentleman said in an earlier post- "Don't Blink." I whole heartedly agree. Well into my career, I find that the work life balance seems to be leaning more on the "work" side than the "life" side. Get the time while you can- no matter how short the time is, no matter how much you may think its not a big deal... it probably is a big deal to them. I know of nobody who ever said on their deathbed, "Gee, I wish I could have spent more time at work."

Comment by Daniel Piccolo on August 26, 2013 at 7:34am

Thanks for the advice Joe W, and Mr Bill. Have iPhone, with lots of games she likes on it (she uses it better than my wife, sometimes), and some tv shows she likes downloaded on it.

Being in Canada, crossing provincial borders isn't a problem with permissions.  If I wanted to go to south (my hometown is at the top of HWY 61!) then I think it's necessary.

Also with the iPhone (and matching iPad back home) we can Facetime, which I intend to do whenever I get the chance (email photos, stuff like that).

Comment by Joe W on August 24, 2013 at 7:10pm

Mr. Bill's comments are right on. Plus, don't forget to obtain a letter from your wife stating she's granting you permission to take the kid out of the state. My wife and I flew down to FL from NJ separately twice now and both times letters were needed.

As for the little one... got a tablet? Put some of her favorite movies on it. It'll entertain her when all else fails.

Comment by Mr Bill on August 23, 2013 at 2:34pm

Hey Dan'l,

Create an agenda showing the wifey what you will be doing, where you will be going, how to get ahold of you (landlines) at each place you will be - in case the cell phone happens not to work or something weird like that. Hopefully it will help ease her anxiety a bit.

Take along copies of yours and hers birth certificates and marriage certificate to your wife along with any other possible official paperwork proving that she is your kid. I hope you never need to use it, but it's so much better to be prepared just in case.

Take LOTS of time to get to where you are going. Stress - traveling or otherwise - is a bugger. Keep in touch with the wife to let her know what you are doing. Those apron strings don't stretch very well. Especially that far away.

Have a laptop with Skype?

Oh, and give the young-un something to suck on or chew on in the airplane to help with the air pressure changes. Good luck man.

 

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