Hello Gentlemen, 

Recently my girlfriend of 2 years (known her for 3) has told me she can not reciprocate the love that I give to her. I am trying to keep a good state of mind about it and trying to keep it together. I put this post where I did because my and my girlfriend are both very Catholic. She and I are both on our summer break and we serve as Eucharistic ministers. but since she told me what she told me, I am not quite sure what to do. I do not want to be mad or angry at her so I am just trying to get advice on what to do. 

Views: 103

Replies to This Discussion

Let your grief and anger out in whatever healthy ways you can (e.g. cry, exercise, write).  It's okay to feel these things.  I've been there; it gets easier with time, but you can't hold it back.  

Sorry, ND.  Isaiah 55:8-9.

Thanks for the support Timothy. If I may why is it that you chose those verses from Isaiah, like I think it is very good for what I am going through. What I mean is what is your thought process behind picking it. 

I don't know what you've been through with your ex (sorry if that stings), but with me, I was hoping to marry mine.  (That obviously didn't happen.)  With this being said, I try to keep in mind that God sees things in a way none of us can, which includes his allowing us freedom and a will.  He wouldn't have allowed her to reject me if He didn't know it was good for me.  It has actually been a huge blessing that we aren't together, though I could not see it at the time.  

I was hoping to marry mine too. 

Getting angry is perfectly fine. Becoming mean with that anger isnt.

Yeah that is what I would like to not happen, but I find it to easy to slip into being mean when anger gets involved. 

A peace. I am wounded but I am in a lot better shape than I thought I would be thanks be to God. We had a chat a few hours ago and came to an understanding and at least for me I got closure which is something that I wanted more than feeling better. 

RSS

Latest Activity

Will replied to Leto Atreides II's discussion Sony pulls The Interview Christmas Release in the group The Great Debate
"Love the humor of this idea from the WSJ: US government: buy the movie from Sony. Distribute it free on the Internet. Dubbed in Korean. Drop DVDs of it, and maybe The Interview:  A Celebration!  booklets by plane all over…"
25 minutes ago
Will replied to Regular Joe's discussion BREAKING: US To Normalize Relations With Cuba in the group The Great Debate
"Peggy Noonan on this: let Castro die seeing US tourists with their smartphones taking pics of the ruins he made of Cuba.  Bringing capitalism to Cuba does not "legitimize" (per Rubio)…"
32 minutes ago
Michael D. Denny replied to John Muir's discussion Oil in the group The Great Debate
"Only by economists who can't actually run a profitable business.It's a demonstrable fact of everyday life."
40 minutes ago
Will replied to Shane's discussion Ignorance of the Law is No Excuse... in the group The Great Debate
"I won't say I know the fix, but it's strange that the remedy for an illegal search is to disallow the evidence, rather than to prosecute whoever did the illegal act.  I am definitely all for limiting government power -- it has so much…"
45 minutes ago
Michael D. Denny replied to Christian Schmidt's discussion Let's Have A Spoiled Christmas
"It's an espresso machine manufactured by faema, you ignorant dolt. Kinda like your love of Lexus, when in truth Lexus is just a toyota with upgraded interior options."
49 minutes ago
Michael D. Denny replied to Christian Schmidt's discussion The Word "Manly" Is A Burden
"Heard a recipie on Cigar Dave today for chipotle and bacon fudge. There is a way to manup anything."
58 minutes ago
Jay D replied to Shane's discussion Ignorance of the Law is No Excuse... in the group The Great Debate
"Still, what to do with cases were the policeman cant be sure? "
1 hour ago
Shane replied to Shane's discussion Ignorance of the Law is No Excuse... in the group The Great Debate
"The annotated law book sitting in their front seat?"
1 hour ago

© 2014   Created by Brett McKay.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service