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Ballroom Dancing

For those of us honest-to-goodness gentlemen who know better. There are few things more manly than leading your lady to the ballroom floor, wearing your best wingtip dance shoes, and leading her in a good old fashioned jive.

Location: Dancetown
Members: 55
Latest Activity: Mar 13

Okay, quiz for you. What’s the fastest way to get a beautiful woman into your arms and you don’t even need to know her name.

Give up?

Ask her to dance!

I'm here to tell you, gentlemen, that the way to a Woman's heart is through ballroom dancing, plain and simple. I care not, what you look like, or how much money you have in the bank. If you can dance, you will always have a lady at your side. It's just the nature of the beastette.

This group is for anyone that can or wants to learn or just chat about:

International Style

International Standard
Slow Waltz - Tango - Viennese Waltz - Slow Foxtrot - Quickstep

International Latin
Cha Cha - Samba - Rumba - Paso Doble - Jive

American Style

American Smooth
Waltz - Tango - Foxtrot - Viennese Waltz

American Rhythm
Cha Cha - Rumba - East Coast Swing - Bolero - Mambo

Historical/Vintage Dance

Waltz - Polka - Schottische - Tango - One-Step - Foxtrot - Peabody

Other dances occasionally categorized as ballroom

Nightclub
Nightclub Two-step - Hustle - Modern Jive / LeRoc / Ceroc - and the whole swing variety: West Coast Swing / East Coast Swing/ Lindy Hop (always included in the "Rhythm-Swing" category) / Carolina Shag / Collegiate Shag

Latin nightclub
Salsa - Merengue - Cumbia - Bachata - Cha cha

Brazilian Dances
Forró - Pagode - Samba de Gafieira - Lambada

Country/Western
Polka - Cha-cha-cha - Two-step - Waltz...
also referred to as "C/W"

Cajun dances
Cajun One Step or Cajun Jig - Cajun Two Step - Zydeco - Cajun Waltz - Cajun Jitterbug

Musette dances
Java, musette-waltz, musette-tango, musette-paso-doble.

Other
Argentine tango and any others you want to throw in!

Discussion Forum

David P. Lochner

And 1 and 2 and 3...

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David P. Lochner

Brown shoes 2 Replies

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John Lowe

Becoming the consummate leader 2 Replies

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Jared Comment by Jared on October 1, 2009 at 11:48pm
I agree dancing is by far the easiest way to start an interaction with a lady.

On top of that learning some basic dance moves from swing, salsa, and rumba will allow you dance to just about any song, even if your partner has no idea what your doing.

It's a great way to make both of you look great!
Adam Comment by Adam on October 1, 2009 at 9:54pm
My wife and I have been taking weekly ballroom classes for about a year. While waltzing, foxtrotting and swing are not really useful in a club scene, Latin dances like mambo and cha-cha work with just about any music and are not too hard to learn.
bill murphy Comment by bill murphy on August 19, 2009 at 3:55am
hello gents i have been ballroom dancing since nine year old but socially not competition the problem as a single man (in the uk by the way) is that the classes assume you have a partner (wife) and you only dance with her not like salsa where you move to the next partner. also the places that do proper dances for the under 60's is not vast. well thats my rant look forward to hearing your experiences.
Troy Comment by Troy on August 18, 2009 at 12:12pm
I think one of the problems is that there is little place for a guy in modern club dancing unless they are grinding on the women, or an "expert" hip hop dancer. This is a pretty tough scene for normal/non-sketchy guys, and I think creates the perception that dancing is something that's "hard," and not for "regular" guys.

To contrast, almost every social dance is accessible to a guy with a few weeks of classes and a few hours of practice under his belt. He won't look as good as someone with lots of experience, but he'll be able to do the dance, and he may even do it reasonably well.

@Chris, free is a great price point, but always be a little cautious of online dance tutorials. There are some really good ones, but sometimes you end up with something that is the creator's own little version of the dance, rather than how "everyone else" does it. As a good reality check, try to find videos of people doing the dance socially (or in "Jack and Jill" competitions).

For swing, you may want to check out http://www.idance.net/ . They offer beginner lessons in many different styles of swing (I recommend Jitterbug/East Coast Swing for beginners), and the prices are very reasonable (their swing starter pack has over an hour of lessons for $13).

Still, absolutely nothing beats a real, live instructor standing in front of you.
Robert Disque Comment by Robert Disque on August 7, 2009 at 4:15pm
I am of the belief that any man over 30 should not dance unless it is a structured dance. Structured dances look sophisticated and manly. Flailing around on a night club dance floor just looks juvenile.
Christopher Teague Comment by Christopher Teague on July 28, 2009 at 6:45am
I'm a recent grad, so I'm not going to spend money on lessons, but my wife and I have recently begun to teach ourselves to dance using expertvillage.com and youtube tutorials. We've started with the waltz, and hope to do swing as well.
Cameron Albert Comment by Cameron Albert on May 6, 2009 at 11:45pm
I took a couple classes with my girlfriend at the local community college and I learned the cha-cha and the swing.
Daniel Ian Richardson Comment by Daniel Ian Richardson on April 24, 2009 at 11:18am
Just uploaded a video of my friend at the Uk Ceroc Championships 2008, brilliant dancer! Let me know what you think!
Gregory Seeley Comment by Gregory Seeley on April 15, 2009 at 12:07am
For those in the S.F Bay Area and interested in vintage dancing:
www.gaskellball.com
www.peers.org
www.fridaynigntwaltz.com
Adiron Michael Corichi Comment by Adiron Michael Corichi on April 15, 2009 at 12:05am
I used to take Argentine tango classes. It was fun. I was the only guy who came consistently.
 

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