30 Days to a Better Man Day 18: Find Your N.U.T.s

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Permalink Reply by Chris Reed on June 18, 2009 at 12:08pm

I'm only looking to share one of mine, as the rest are still being worked out.

I take pride in my self, this shows in my dress, my grooming, my actions, and my home.

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Permalink Reply by Ross Moore on June 18, 2009 at 8:35pm

Still working on them, but here are some:
For the things I have to do, I will seek counsel, but not ask permission.
I will be physically active 6 days a week.
I will read & study the Bible everyday.
I have eyes only for my wife (Job 31:1).
I will disciple my family daily.

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Permalink Reply by oracle989 on June 18, 2009 at 10:24pm

1) When I have something to say, I may soften the blow, but I never dilute the point.
2) I never promise anything I don't fully intend to follow through with.
3) If I screwed it up, I'm fixing it.
4) I will not complain about a situation I caused.
5) I will be my own man whether it appeases others or not.

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Permalink Reply by Andrew Barbour on June 19, 2009 at 7:04am

I can't think of very many things that I can say I keep absolutely constant, or have kept going as NUTs for long enough to truly represent my values, but I can put forth the NUTs that I try to live by now and intend to stick to come hell or high water:

1. Assume all eyes are on me at all times. My integrity should be unassailable. No lying, no cheating, no littering, no nothing.
2. Always admit when I am at fault.
3. No badmouthing others in their absence. Or in their presence, if that can be avoided too.
4. Give credit where credit is due.
5. It is no longer my own life to live; I now share it with three others (my wife and two kids).
6. I will never, ever be unfaithful to my wife.
7. I will check every urge before I act, save for the urge to tell my loved ones that I love them.
9. When asked to lead or do an unpleasant task, do so with enthusiasm...or at least a damn good impression of enthusiasm.

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Permalink Reply by Chris Partida on June 19, 2009 at 11:15am

1. I will travel as much as possible before I'm unable to.
2. I will never cheat on my girl.
3. I will ride my bike at least once a week.
4. I will do my best to keep those around me happy.
5. I have responsibilities that I will get done.

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Permalink Reply by Dad of Divas on June 20, 2009 at 9:35pm

posted: http://dadofdivas.blogspot.com

In thinking about this, some of the N.U.T.S. that I find important in my life include:

* I am faithful to my wife
* I find time to spend with my children and am present during these times
* I am honest to those around me
* I talk about concerns to people whom they effect and do not let them linger
* I welcome and look for feedback
* I will admit when I am wrong
* I will always be attracted to my wife
* I will try to carve out some time for me as often as I can
* I will work to put my family first in all situations

These are a few of the things that I can think of, but my list is one that continues to grow.

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Permalink Reply by Michael Luevane on June 22, 2009 at 8:29am

1. I put my family first
2. I do what is right
3. I speak truth, tempered by #2 above
4. I comport myself in an honorable way.
5. I am patient with all, but most especially with small children. Like my own...

It's a start...

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Permalink Reply by John Clanton on June 22, 2009 at 8:54am

1. I will pray every day
2. I will Journal daily
3. I will read the Bible daily
4. I will always tell the truth
5. I will never cheat on my girl
6. I will keep my promises

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Permalink Reply by Craig Lloyd on June 22, 2009 at 2:19pm

Tough one actually. I wanted to make sure they were more specific than my core values, but more general than the specific items on my 'resolution tracker' (based on Benjamin Franklin's virtues). I think I will look to develop some short-term N.U.Ts when I begin working on specific tasks or goals to keep me on track and help with decisions (will I watch this tv program - no; I spend 30mins every day learning Spanish... and I haven't done it yet today). For now:

I look after my body.
I provide.
I don't regret my choices.
I am present in my activities, interactions and experiences.
Fear is not a reason.
There is no shame in change.

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Permalink Reply by Sam Spade on June 23, 2009 at 9:54am

I'm a little late but here goes:

1. I take care of myself physically and mentally.
2. The needs of my family come before anything else.
3. I do not go into debt for non-emergencies.
4. I raise my children to be responsible, independent adults.
5. I'm responsible for my own success.

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Permalink Reply by Kurt on June 23, 2009 at 3:00pm

Upon awakening I do three things: 1. Read my Bible, 2. Pray for myself, those I love, and our Country, 3. Meditate on who I am in Christ.
Every day I:
4. Look for ways to Love.
5. Give to someone in need.
6. Excercise
7. Edify, inspire or build someone up.
8. Get outside of the house.
Just some ways I "get outside my self."

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Permalink Reply by Paul on June 24, 2009 at 10:37am

I am also a little late posting these. I built off some that I had seen here or on the main page and came up with a couple more myself.

I live for the glory of Jesus Christ.
I am committed to love my fiancee and put her needs ahead of mine, whatever the cost.
I do not let others assign value to myself or my accomplishments.
I accept all criticism as a way to better myself (Proverbs 17.10, 19.25, 25.12, etc)
I do not live beyond my means.
I always honor good effort and intention, even in the absence of proper execution.
My word is my bond and I accept responsibility for my words and actions.

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