What do you think? How to improve the self-esteem and appear determined? (pratical advices) A man must be cold or thoughtful?
I would like opinions
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Permalink Reply by Jack Bauer on March 2, 2013 at 8:13pm Fair enough. Quiet confidence doesn't cause trouble getting women, though. Neither does 'mystery'. "Vain confidence" often beats no-confidence, though.
JB
Permalink Reply by Nathan DeParis on March 2, 2013 at 8:19pm I'm laughing a bit because I can't seem to tell if you are agreeing with me or what JB, I think you are so I'm going to add your right Vain confidence is better than no confidence, but either way the reality of the vain one is revealed.
Permalink Reply by Jack Bauer on March 2, 2013 at 8:22pm I was agreeing for the most part ... except insofar as the question is why chicks pick bad guys over good ones, and I don't think that the 'quietly confident' good guys are the ones that are getting overlooked.
JB
Permalink Reply by Brian W. Barrett on March 3, 2013 at 1:33am Quietly Confident = Cool. Or. . ."I've thought about what I would do in that situation, and I CAN HANDLE IT." Maybe I just found another motto.
Permalink Reply by Brian W. Barrett on March 3, 2013 at 1:30am To answer OP on self-esteem, thoughtful/cold it's just way deeper than that.
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http://www.doubleyourdating.com/catalog/ebook.html
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Permalink Reply by Nick on March 5, 2013 at 12:24pm Most "bad boys" represent manliness... for the most part. They don't care to speak their mind and do what they want; they lead the relationship how they want it to go; they are active and interesting. I would suggest reading up on some pick-up by Mystery. He says a lot of things that are true... if you think about it. I don't condone everything; but these guys know what they're talking about. But women want a man that knows what he wants and it seems that the bad boy knows exactly what he wants.
Permalink Reply by Craig on March 5, 2013 at 12:42pm Because nice guys are wet noodles and no women wants a wet noodle.
Permalink Reply by Liam S. on March 5, 2013 at 12:47pm I don't think that one has to be a wet noodle, to be nice. Nobody likes a doormat, but standing up for something (yourself) doesn't mean being an asshole either.
Permalink Reply by Nick on March 5, 2013 at 12:49pm I agree with you... but it's more likely for a nice guy to be. There is always a happy medium... those are always harder to find though.
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