I am always the good guy, I try to be nice to everyone genuinely just in general to everyone (not just in attempts at getting laid). I'll admit that I am not the best looking guy right now at 19, and I've never even had a real relationship but I'm working on it. But literally every time I have attempted talking to a girl over the past year I have just got screwed over in the end and it sucks. I just don't understand what I am doing wrong, it seems as if they just want my attention when nobody else will give it to them.
God brought Her to me when I was looking hard! She came from an unexpected direction -- but if I hadn't been looking hard, I wouldn't have seen her.
Just a side note.
Because you have a Narrow Urethra Hank. :P
Well I had been talking to this girl for a couple of days. She was real flirty, I did the "tell a girl where you're going and that she should come" approach. No reply after an hour. Brad Pitt rule and and disregard? Pardon my French but fuck this. This is the kind of shit that gets under my skin.
1) An hour isn't a long time.
2) It depends on how you told her. Could have come across as a prick or creepy or did it perfect and she was absolutely stunned into silence
3) If you want a sure thing, go get a hooker. Like fishing, like hunting, you will win and you will lose. The fact that you can keep getting them to initially talk to you honestly means so much and puts you so much further ahead than so many guys your age. Striking out fucking sucks and is a blow to your ego, but getting up, dusting off and getting back in there is what seperates the boys from the men.
Well she eventually replied saying "Really?:)" and I said yes and she said it depends if she is busy. I'm predicting a 90% chance of a flake tomorrow.
Might have worked out better if you hadn't been going to morgue.
Although i sympathize with a lonely heart, you havent truly known heartbreak until you've been cheated on and thrown out of your shared apartment for a coworker. Honestly though, i dated a girl like you described to Jack. There's a good saying about relationships like that (oddly enough, it's from Maxim's pornstar tweets) "A relationship is like a fart; If you have to force it, it's probably shit." If nothing else, i hope you get a chuckle and some insight out of that.
If a pornstar forces it, she's likely to prolapse.
Ewww... I've actually treated a patient with that... It's quite hard to have a light conversation with a man while you are trying to push his asshole back in. Learned something interesting from a GI doctor: Pour sugar on it! Seriously!
<Breaks into chorus of Pour Some Sugar on Me> Seriously though, I'm interested in how sugar works in that situation, but I don't want to derail the thread further, shoot a PM or post it in the Ars Medica group.
That's funny right there.