What are some things you guys do that make you feel like a man?

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Love all of these, but the last one in particular.  :)

Hell, I feel alone in the world of males, effeminate or not.

"Mama said to knock you out".

Man don't think so much....

Raw manliness:

- Growing a beard. I've had plenty of stubbles and a couple short beards before, but I'm currently growing my first "serious" beard. I used to just let it grow on its own and shave it all off when I felt like it (with the occasional neckline shave, and the longest I let it grow for was about a couple of months), but now I'm investing on grooming products, such as barber scissors and beard oils.

- Working out. Building my body makes me feel that raw, wild manliness like nothing else. Being physically strong (truly, naturally strong, without any of that roid bullshit), and just the pure act of exercising and exerting your limits, has a great effect on the mind and makes you feel ready to take on anything.

- Drinking beer. A nice pint of ale has the magical power to add a few hairs on anyone's chest.

Moral manliness (I don't claim to always do these without fail, but I try my best):

- Being truthful. Hiding behind lies shows you're not strong enough to stand for and take responsibility for your actions and beliefs.

- Being humble. A true man knows that, while he should stand up for himself and have his due self-respect, he is not perfect. He always takes any opportunity he can to learn new things about any aspect of life, wherever these lessons may come from. Likewise, he knows that he should admit his mistakes and learn from them.

Good list.  I had a beard for about 5 years (after getting out of the military).  I kept it trimmed, but in retrospect it did feel manly.  I still sport a mustache and have since I was 16 years old.

Doing anything for my Fiancee that makes me feel like I'm providing for her. Buying her engagement ring, and furniture for our new house gives me that bread winner feeling that's really important to me. 

Mowing the lawn, watching football, playing football, hiking in the woods, having facial hair/stubble, changing a flat tire, working hard at your job, jogging/exercising, taking responsibility, etc.

In no particular order:

- Getting up early 

- Cold Showers

- Touching gloves with a guy immediately before a sparring session

- Touching gloves with (and almost tearfully hugging) a guy immediately after a sparring session

- Having fixed something around the house - I cannot claim many white collar skills, and when it´s a technological issue that would drive me nuts I am happy to call someone, but when it comes to plumbing, painting and carpenting, I am an eager learner and always proud, when I have solved a problem myself. 

- Hanging out with my best buddy - there is just something about the company of a true friend that is impossible to beat

- Developing a new skill - I am not talking about live-changing stuff here, but I just enjoy the feeling of learning that I was capable of something I had no idea about before. 

- Looking back on the day and feeling that I have accomplished something (no matter how mundane)

I suggest working out, working with tools, hiking, reading manly things (I like sports books and biographys), collecting something nostalgic (pocket knives for me), watching sports, being with family, helping with chores to give some relief, and straight razor shaving. That's not even touching on the moral aspects which, for me and most Christians, involves praising and honoring God.

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