I find that most self-help books are a lot more gender-neutral and based on market-orientated skills, such as: how to be confident, charismatic, and eliminate stress.
I've had some trouble finding over the past days books based more specifically on development of the male character, on what it means to be a man. Things like values, virtue and integrity are harder to find in the modern self-help book section.
Right now I'm looking at Benjamin Franklin's biography, The rise of Theodore Roosevelt and some Alexander the Great books.
Does anyone have anything to recommend? does not necessarily have to be a biography of a famous person, just a character-development book.
Here are two great ones -
Nine Things Every Guy Oughta Know
What Every Man Needs to Know
written by myself
I would recommend The Brothers Karamazov or the 48 Laws of Power
Don't read self-help books. They are a new phenomenon brought on by a sissified society. Instead read the great classics.