So I am 18 and a freshman in college, and my girlfriend wanted to take a break from our relationship as we entered university. No big deal, but lately I have been feeling rather anxious to talk to her, but I don't feel right about it. She said is looking for time to figure out her life, but I can't stop thinking about her.

I just want to know if I should just find something to forget about the whole scenario, or pursue a friendship with her at the moment?

(We have not spoken in about a month)

Views: 211

Reply to This

Replies to This Discussion

Pursuing a friendship won't make you feel better.  Don't bother.


JB

my girlfriend wanted to take a break from our relationship as we entered university = she wanted to bang other dudes without feeling guilty.

It's over, move on.

If you're unsure, it must not be a strong desire.  But if you are sure ("can't stop thinking about her")... Might look up that post on AoM's main site, stop hanging out with women and start dating them.

Thanks for all the advice. I guess I just need to get my mind off of it

RSS

Latest Activity

Lumberjoe replied to Brandon Johns's discussion How hipster is AoM
"Wait. Are hipsters the ones who who are into obscure hoppy micro craft beers and weird imported trappist trippels and imperial stouts you've never heard of . . . or are they ones that are into Pabst Blue Ribbon and other run-of-the-mill blue…"
5 minutes ago
Clinton R. Ausmus replied to Sir's discussion The Cost Disease in the group The Great Debate
"That's why medical costs keep going up.  Un/underinsured go to the hospital and never pay their bills.  Just google what your county hospital writes off in a year in unpaid hospital bills...So hospitals raise their costs across the…"
47 minutes ago
Lumberjoe replied to David R.'s discussion "Iron sharpens iron" in the group The Great Debate
""Why not?  I can decide that someone that pulls a gun in McDonalds over poor quality McNuggets is over-reacting, why can't I decide that getting someone fired and publicly castigated for properly using the word "niggardly"…"
1 hour ago
Pale Horse replied to Sir's discussion The Cost Disease in the group The Great Debate
"I know why it's that way with tuition. I'm sure that it's for the same reason in most of, if not all, those other categories you listed. The government is constantly giving young men and women money to "help" them pay for…"
2 hours ago
Kit the Odd replied to David R.'s discussion "Iron sharpens iron" in the group The Great Debate
"Why not?  I can decide that someone that pulls a gun in McDonalds over poor quality McNuggets is over-reacting, why can't I decide that getting someone fired and publicly castigated for properly using the word "niggardly" is…"
2 hours ago
David R. replied to Drew's discussion Women with body image issues
"As a side bar, I was told years ago that when Playgirl magazine was first published, men for the first time got to feel what it's been like for women forever it seems.  (No one of either gender can compete with the perfect air-brushed…"
3 hours ago
Lumberjoe replied to David R.'s discussion "Iron sharpens iron" in the group The Great Debate
""I'll also add: if there needs to be a change, the leaders of the change should be members of the group. For self-appointed guardians to decide for other ethnicities what they should be offended by seems pretty demeaning." "Of…"
3 hours ago
David R. replied to David R.'s discussion "Iron sharpens iron" in the group The Great Debate
"The whole "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me" thing is B.S.  I remember meeting a woman in her 80s a few years ago who shared with me that when she was a child she was called ugly, and that stuck with…"
3 hours ago

© 2017   Created by Brett McKay.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service