"The real ones are called trophy buckles, and are actually given as trophies in rodeo events. The bigger and shinier the buckle, the higher the ranking.
I nicknamed them "turkey platter" buckles."
Godparents
My wife and I are expecting our first child in the fall and have started entertaining the idea of asking some close friends to be Godparents. I have benefitted greatly from having Godparents in my life and would like to give that to my son/daughter as well. The Godparents my parents chose for brother were not as great, moved away and out of my brother's life.
I am anxious to hear from Dads out there on their experiences with this and whether they would advise we pursue this, or pass on it. Thanks.
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Permalink Reply by Craig McCurdy on -
What you stated about your brother is a good example of why I don't think it is a good idea. Years ago most folks grew up lived and died within a 10 mile radius not so much anymore. Things change people move around more. I recommend that you you and the Mrs sit down draw up a will and state who gets your kids if something tragic happens and find an uncle/aunt or other family member/close friend to mentor him/her sort of best friend big brother/sister figure. JM2C
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Permalink Reply by Carl Monster on -
That's what we did. What little is left of our family is scattered, and many are non-religious, so the term rings hollow.
My godparents were not even in this country, and aside from some checks their effect on my spiritual upbringing was zero.
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Permalink Reply by Jack Green on -
Thanks guys, some good advice indeed. I suppose if you surround your kids with good people with good values, the opportunity is there for others to be be a good influence. I know that was key for me growing up. A strong family and multiple family friends/coaches/teachers/pastors helped guide me along. Trying to formalize it might only be a set-up for disappointment.
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Permalink Reply by Experimental Wife on -
I'm a mom and not a dad, but I hope you won't mind me butting in.
My husband and I are religious, so we are very happy to have two people committed to praying for our son. I'm not sure godparents make a lot of sense in any other context.
How did your godparents benefit you? Do you have people you can choose who will stay in your kids' lives, even at a distance?
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