Do you like to dress your best every single day? Do you like to put on cologne every single day?

Or do you worry about energy savings and wear something out until it needs to be put in the laundry? Or do you just wear something different everyday and put the clean ones back where they belong in the closet ?

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Dress situationally.  A guy that lived across the street when I was a kid used to mow his lawn in a suit (to be fair, he took off the jacket).  In the summer.  In Houston, Texas.  He thought he looked sharp ... he actually looked like a dumbass.

 

JB

Hey I do that too sometimes don't hate.

I guess you've gotten a glimpse of what some kid across the street is going to be posting about you 15-years from now.


JB

The superintendent of the school district I worked in last year was this great old school West Texas teacher and he had an interesting theory on work appropriate clothing for teachers.  "You should feel the need to change out of what you wear to work before you start cooking dinner."  

That being said, I tend to dress slightly more formally than other male teachers I've encountered.  I feel that dressing well is a sign of good self esteem and self respect, and when a person has that his employees (or in my case, students) are respectful as well.  

I agree with that idea, in fact I believe they have done studies before on how a teacher dresses vs how their students behave or perform. It's is a rather interesting idea. 

i try and dress my best everyday, even if i'm dressed down its still smart and clean. and old spice or Clubman afterhsave everyday

I work in the IT industry, so there is no dress code. However, I still like to look nice, so I'll wear a nice pair of dark jeans or nice pants and a nice button down shirt, cardigan, or a peacoat. I know that looks aren't everything but if my skills are equal with another co-worker who wears shorts and a ratty t-shirt, I'd like to think my dress would make a difference. 

Where I work it's business casual: slacks, dress shirt, dress shoes for men, equivalents for women.  No day-off casual allowed, polos on occasion.  Once you hit a certain level in the organization, it's suit and tie, period.

I'm below the suit and tie level, but will wear a tie if we've a big deal meeting going on, or I feel like being a bit dressy.

I don't wear a tie unless I have to ... which pretty much boils down to court or funerals.  And, I don't much like suits, either.  They're uncomfortable -- though a lot better since I scrapped dress shoes for dress cowboy boots (God bless Texas) -- stuffy, a hassle, and you have to dry clean them.  Bleh.

 

Fundamentally, I'm utilitarian.  I'll wear the most comfortable, functional option within the dress code for the occasion.

 

JB

A suit shouldn't be uncomfortable.  If it is, odds are it either doesn't fit right or is the wrong material for the climate (i.e. wool in the heat of a Texas summer). 

They're uncomfortable, even with the right fit.  If they were comfortable, men would wear suits lounging around the house, or to the ballgame, or on business casual days.  They don't because they're not.  I don't know a single guy that wears suits because they're comfortable ... they typically change out of suits to get comfortable.


JB

I've worn suits to the ballgame and on plenty of occasions where I didn't have to.  I do tend to change out of them when I get home, but that's more out of a concern for protecting the suit than from discomfort.  I suppose that a suit is less comfortable when one is lying down and that a tailored jacket can be constraining when doing something requiring lots of arm movement, but those aren't situations where one is likely to wear a suit.  A suit should be comfortable when one is standing, walking around, sitting upright, and the like--the normal activities of church, the courtroom, the classroom, or the office.  The difference in comfort between my wearing a suit to church and wearing something else is minimal.  I'm not arguing that a suit is more comfortable than more casual alternatives, but that the difference is minor, often imperceptible. 

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