I recently was shown this article. Honestly made me feel pretty sad.
Personally, I feel like I've been a very guarded person most of my life yet I've also really craved some kind of deep friendship (or buddyship) with another man. The fear and risk of sexualizing it has definitely kept me far away from something I really want.
Just wanted to share. What do you all think about the article?
I'd say; if you want to be friends with a man, be friends with him. If you don't want to have sex with him, it's probably best you didn't.
Unless it's Thursday... then go ahead and do it anyway.
Ahhh, yes. Manlove Thursday.
Jesus Shane, you are deep and wise. Glad you're here with us!
You think he should have sex with a man he doesn't want to?
What is this about Thursday, I've heard that before.
Not being Sarcastic at all, have read many of your posts including Manlove Thursday - I just wanted you to know that I enjoy your posts and understand your logic...that might scare you but so be it.
I'm being serious, what is it about Thursday (I never heard of Manlove Thursday until the post above)? But I've heard this reference made before, someone told me a long time ago that in a dormitory (I won't say where) in the 1950s if you didn't want to have sex you kept your door locked on Thursday nights. What's the significance of Thursday, and why would I be scared by your comment?
^ Right, that's what I said.