I build copper and brass starburst clocks that glow in the dark. I know that does not seem like too horribly manly of a pursuit, but it has many manly elements. I get cut a lot, I solder, drill holes in stuff, and measure a lot. I also can make a lot of the stuff I give for Christmas...
"How much an agent a 15-y-o is in an encounter with an adult depends on the 15 y o.
One 15-y-o- girl, reacting to an adult man copping a feel, will freeze. Another will slap him.
Sure, there's a problem with the boy, but it may not be that…"